Davina Richardson, RGN/RSCN Specialist Children’s Nurse at Bladder & Bowel UK, discusses managing bedwetting as a teenager. Find out what causes bedwetting in older children and teenagers. Also, what can be done to help and where you can go for support.
Bedwetting or enuresis is one of the most common medical problems in the under 18s. Those who wet the bed every night, or nearly every night, are less likely to ‘grow out’ of the problem. Therefore, treatment should be offered to any child over the age of five years who continues to be wet for two or more nights a week. Older children and teenagers may also be less likely to get better without treatment.
Bedwetting can be particularly difficult and distressing for older children and teenagers. Embarrassment is a huge issue. Feeling unable to share the problem with friends, due to fear of being bullied or laughed at, results in isolation including avoiding social situations, such as sleep-overs and school trips. It causes problems with self-esteem and self-confidence and if sleep is disturbed can result in tiredness during the day. All of these can improve with treatment.
If families do not understand that bedwetting is not deliberate but is caused by a medical problem, they might punish their child or young person. This can make the wetting worse, as well as cause more problems with low mood and distress. Young people may feel helpless believing that this is a problem which is not going to get better following periods of treatment that have not worked.
It is important that the young person and their family, understands
Young people need to be included in consultations and understand the options available to them. Allowing them to be involved in choosing the right treatment, helps them to follow the treatment plan and makes success more likely.
Bedwetting happens when either the kidneys make too much wee while someone is asleep, or the bladder is not able to hold all the wee made during sleep. Everyone who wets the bed does so because their brain is unable to wake them up in response to messages from their bladder.
We know that some things can help bedwetting. These include:
As there are different causes of bedwetting, there are different treatments. If the bedwetting is happening because the kidneys are making too much wee at night, there is a medicine that may help. If the problem is because the bladder is not able to store wee properly, then there are other medicines that may be more appropriate. If the problem is that the bladder is too small, or the brain is not waking the young person up when the bladder wants to empty, then an enuresis alarm might work. If there is more than one problem, there may need to be more than one treatment, so assessment is important. Not all treatments are suitable for everyone.
Most secondary schools have a school nurse who runs a confidential drop-in clinic. The reception staff at school should be able to tell you when this is or give you the contact details for the school nurse. They do not need to know why you want to contact the nurse. School nurses may be able to offer advice or refer you to a specialist clinic.
Your GP (family doctor) or nurse at the surgery should also be able to give you advice or treatment or refer you to someone who specialises in treating bedwetting.
Bladder & Bowel UK also provide a confidential helpline service at email: firstname.lastname@example.org or on telephone 0161 607 8219
Date of preparation: November 2019
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